Sunday, November 11, 2018

Ruth 3-4




Ruth 3:1-5, 4:13-17 (NRSV)

 Naomi her mother-in-law said to her, “My daughter, I need to seek some security for you, so that it may be well with you. 2 Now here is our kinsman Boaz, with whose young women you have been working. See, he is winnowing barley tonight at the threshing floor. 3 Now wash and anoint yourself, and put on your best clothes and go down to the threshing floor; but do not make yourself known to the man until he has finished eating and drinking. 4 When he lies down, observe the place where he lies; then, go and uncover his feet and lie down; and he will tell you what to do.” 5 She said to her, “All that you tell me I will do.”

413 So Boaz took Ruth and she became his wife. When they came together, the Lord made her conceive, and she bore a son. 14 Then the women said to Naomi, “Blessed be the Lord, who has not left you this day without next-of-kin; and may his name be renowned in Israel! 15 He shall be to you a restorer of life and a nourisher of your old age; for your daughter-in-law who loves you, who is more to you than seven sons, has borne him.” 16 Then Naomi took the child and laid him in her bosom, and became his nurse. 17 The women of the neighborhood gave him a name, saying, “A son has been born to Naomi.” They named him Obed; he became the father of Jesse, the father of David.

The story of Ruth reveals itself as a very simple, ordinary love story.  Yet, to read the story of Ruth is to see God at work. The story occurs in a time when relationships within Israel were falling apart.  In chapter eighteen of Judges, the tribe of Dan attacked the peaceful town of Laish.  In chapter nineteen, a priest cuts up his wife into twelve parts.  He sent one part to each tribe in Israel in order to deliver a message.  In chapter twenty, the other eleven tribes attack the tribe of Benjamin.  They almost destroy the entire tribe.  They feel sorry about it afterwards.  They give the few remaining men of the tribe of Benjamin the right to rape some of the women from another city.  The book ends with the phrase: "In those days there was no king in Israel; all the people did what was right in their own eyes." 

Something was happening in their society.  Relationships of hospitality, of caring for one another, of being in connection with one another, were falling apart.  In some ways, I am sure that last phrase represents sadness in the heart of God.  People simply doing what they please.  People acting with little sense of responsibility toward one another. 

The story of Ruth takes place in this type of society. Just an ordinary family with rather ordinary people involved.  Naomi and her husband moved to a foreign land.  While there, her husband died, and her two sons died without having children through their wives.  She determines to leave the country and return to Israel.  She tells Orpah and Ruth to return to their own families.  That is what would make sense.  Orpah would do so.  Ruth, on the other hand, was determined to stay with Naomi.  There was no law that would force her to do this.  She freely chose to remain in a committed relationship with Naomi.  Could it be that in that kind of free choice, we will find God? 

They arrive in Israel at just the right time.  It was time for the harvest.  Naomi sends Ruth to the fields to glean some food for themselves.  The field she goes to is that of Boaz.  He does what is right, and just a little bit more.  It was his responsibility to allow the poor to take some food for themselves.  However, he instructed the workers to make sure that Ruth would get just a bit more than others would.  Naomi notices something. The older man who owns the land from which Ruth is gleaning is impressed with and (the text seems to imply) attracted to her. Boaz has noticed how hard Ruth works at this demeaning labor. Through the grapevine, he has heard the tragic story of the loss of her husband, brother-in-law and father-in-law. He is impressed that she has chosen to move from her family home in Moab to help care for her mother-in-law in Bethlehem. Ruth is clearly a remarkable woman, and Boaz is smitten.

Naomi sees the special treatment Ruth is receiving. Boaz has told his workers to leave plenty of grain in the fields for her to gather. He tells them to keep an eye on her so she is safe. Perhaps due to her naiveté, or simply because she has more important things on her mind, Ruth does not seem to notice what is obvious to the reader and the older and wiser mother-in-law. Naomi the matchmaker plans to bring these two "kids" together. Yet, she is also practical, matching her and Ruth's need with Boaz's ability to provide. Remember, in the ancient world marriage worked differently than it does today. There was romance, but there was also a large dose of practicality to go along with it.

Chapter 3 opens with a new dramatic element of mystery, secrecy, and privacy that becomes an essential part of the story. The characters have choices to make. The call to righteous living is dominate even here, in a provocative setting. God is present where there are responsible and faithful human beings.

3:1Naomi her mother-in-law said to her, “My daughter, I need to seek some security for you, so that it may be well with you. 2 Now, here is our kinsman Boaz, with whose young women you have been working. See, he is winnowing barley tonight at the threshing floor. 3 Now, wash and anoint yourself, and put on your best clothes and go down to the threshing floor. Such preparations are as if Ruth is the bride of Boaz. However, do not make yourself known to the man until he has finished eating and drinking. 4 When he lies down, observe the place where he lies; then, go and uncover his feet and lie down; and he will tell you what to do.” The narrator is intentionally provocative as to how much of his legs she would uncover. The narrator wants the reader to deal with the possibility of sexual intercourse between Ruth and Boaz.  5 She said to her, “All that you tell me I will do.” Naomi is setting up a provocative set of circumstances. This portion of the story has received much attention from scholars.[1] However, I would suggest that as part of the sacred text of Jews and Christians, regardless of the sexual and moral issues the words suggest, the point remains that simple acts of covenant loyalty keep moving this story forward to its conclusion.

In 4:13-17, Boaz takes Ruth for his wife. 4:13 Therefore, Boaz took Ruth and she became his wife. When they came together, the Lord made her conceive, and she bore a son. This is in striking contrast to ten years of being without child in Moab. 14 Then the women said to Naomi, “Blessed be the Lord, who has not left you this day without next-of-kin. We should note that she thought the hand of the Lord was against her in Chapter 1, suggesting the Lord was her enemy. Further, may his name be renowned in Israel! 15 He shall be to you a restorer of life and a nourisher of your old age; for your daughter-in-law who loves you, who is more to you than seven sons, has borne him.” 16 Then Naomi took the child and laid him in her bosom, and became his nurse. 17 The women of the neighborhood gave him a name, saying, “A son has been born to Naomi.” Naomi has received new children. While the text does not fully answer the complaint of Naomi, she receives new tasks. They named him Obed. The neighbors seem to have a part to play in the naming of the child, as we also see in Luke 1:59. He became the father of Jesse, the father of David. Thus, through a series of events, she marries Boaz.  There will be a son.  In a strange sense, everything works out in the end.  Naomi does not get her sons or husband back.  Nevertheless, Boaz is there.  Moreover, a grandson is there.  In addition, of course, there is Ruth.  Ruth, a far-from-royal, down-on-her-luck outsider, is the great-grandmother of the greatest king in the history of Israel, David. In a sense, the story of Ruth and Naomi is a story of David.

One who was faithful in her relationships throughout the story.  Could we find God there? How ordinary can you get?  People making choices in which they live responsibly, righteously, and faithfully.  People choosing lovingly committed relationships.  Yes, God is there.

I invite you to reflect upon the goodness and beauty of those who daily walk with God. They do so without expecting gloriously high moments in worship. They are willing to live their life with God and the people of God without receiving the feeling that some people seem to think is so necessary for conversion, filling of the Spirit, and Christian life.

One woman told her pastor that she did not want to get too close to God. She just wanted to be close enough to get into heaven quietly. She did not want to be saint, but she also did want to go to hell. Her analogy was that as a child, she decided to get C’s. She did want an F, for then she would have to repeat the class. She did not want an A, for then people would start expecting things from her. She figured that if she got too close to God, God might send her to India, and she did not want that either.[2]

Such a view of life is outside the realm of one who has made a decision to live with Jesus as their companion. Yet, it does show that our visions of people who are close to God are the superstars of the faith. Those who do the extraordinary are the ones we tend to set up as patterns of discipleship. The pattern might be extraordinary feeling or extraordinary missionary commitment. The pattern might be a certain type of sermon. In either case, we need to recognize that while some people do have a life journey that leads them down the path of the extraordinary, for which we can all be grateful, the reality is that most of the people of God, including pastors, lead relatively ordinary lives of daily faithfulness. They do so without receiving heights of emotion, lofty visions, or seemingly obvious miracles. To put it another way, maybe we need to see the goodness and beauty of the ordinary life of faithfully and daily living the Christian life. When I see it, I must say that I find it impressive. 

One day, St. Francis of Assisi said to several of his followers: "Let us go to the village over the way and preach."  As they went, they met someone loaded down with a personal burden.  Francis was in no hurry.  He sat down and listened.  When they arrived in the village, Francis talked with the shopkeepers, spent time with the farmers as they were selling their fruits, and played with the children.  On the way back, they met a farmer with a load of hay, and Francis spent time with him.  The morning now gone, they reached the monastery from where they had set out in the early morning.  One of the followers was disappointed.  "Brother Francis, you said you were going to preach.  The morning is spent and no sermon has been given."  Francis replied, "But we have been preaching all the way."[3]

Maybe this is true Christian living.  Simply knowing what to do today to live faithfully in the presence of God may well be the insight we need to continue on the Christian path.  Maybe we do preach a sermon in our families, at work, at play, with our neighbors.  Are you ready to preach your own sermon today?

Think of it this way. All of us have a gift to give.  As we go through life, we discover that gift and offer it to others.  Maybe that is the best any of us can do with our lives.  It is so easy to think only of how others can give to us and nourish us.  Part of maturing in life, part of the growth we need, is to discover what we can give back to others.  We are so often impressed with the larger than life heroes of the big screen.  I find myself increasingly impressed by the heroes of daily life.  They do not get to the front page of the paper.  They are the ones who get up every day and have a reason for living this day.  They are willing to sacrifice for family and friends.  They are willing to live the values and principles in which they believe.  They do these boring things every day.  Yet, they are the ones who make the world a happier and safer place in which to live.  Life is so short.  Why not use this short life well?  Why not use this brief time wisely?  Living the Christian life faithfully and daily moves against our tendency to demand our own way. It moves us away from looking at others as a means to serving our ends. It will help us focus upon what give back to life rather than just get out of life. We will rightly order our passion and gifts. Such a life has a dimension of daily sacrifice it is true. Sacrifice for others is not easy. Yet, such an approach to discipleship will help us receive joy when we can make the lives of others a bit happier and brighter because our life journeys have crossed.

I find this to be very true to how I experience the reality of God in my own life.  When I became a Christian as an early teenager, there were no bolts of lightning.  Rather, what I was so fortunate to have was a pastor who cared about me and prayed with me.  When I committed myself to become a minister, there were no visions.  Nevertheless, there was an inner call of God to which I responded.  When I changed denominations from the Wesleyan Church to the United Methodist Church, there was no opening in the skies.  However, there was a sense of God leading through my connections with people and with my own growth as a believer. 

I have a rather scary admission to make. The most moving emotional experience I have had in my life was attending a Paul McCartney concert in Indianapolis, my two sons on either side of me. They knew the songs of Paul and the Beatles. We joined in with the thousands who were there. I could not believe that I was in the same room with Paul. It was beyond anything I could have dreamed. It still it is. It still brings tears of joy to my eyes.

I do not find God's activity in my life to be of the dramatic, miraculous sort.  I do find God to be very much with me in daily life.  Sometimes, daily life is not very exciting.  Indeed, it can be boring.  Moreover, it can be very challenging.  There are experiences of pain and suffering which any of us can experience at any time.  Yet, God is there too.  
During World War II, there was a village called Le Chambon in France.  Unlike other towns, this one did not allow the Nazis to take the Jewish people from their midst.  Rather, they hid them.  Mr. Haile went to the village, wondering what sort of courageous, ethical heroes who risked their lives like this could live in this village.  They must be extraordinary people.  Yet, as he interviewed people, their ordinary quality is what overwhelmed him.   They were not especially insightful or daring.  The one experience that united them was there attendance on Sunday morning at the little church where pastor Trochme preached.  He believed that over time, the people came to know what was right, and then they did it.  When the Nazis came into town, they quietly did what was right.  One woman said: "Pastor always taught us that there comes a time in every life when a person is asked to do something for Jesus.  When our time came, we knew what to do."[4] Maybe that is what it is like to be a Christian.  We know what to do today to live faithfully and lovingly in the presence of God.


[1] Victor Shepherd, “Ruth: The woman and the book,” victorshepherd.on.ca/Sermons/Ruth.htm. Retrieved June 12, 2006. Some would suggest that the work of God moves ahead despite the sin of those who serve God. In this case, Ruth was calculating, manipulative, and devious. They would urge us not to get to sentimental about Ruth. She needed a husband. Her culture marginalized widows. Yes, Ruth could glean in the field belonging to Boaz as a way to fend off the worst effects of poverty. Yet, Ruth wanted more. She wanted a husband. She snared her husband by entrapment. Her approach to Boaz comes when he is thirsty from labor and drank too much wine. In uncovering his feet, we find a biblical idiom that means exposing the genitals. As Boaz awakens, he wonders who this woman is, covers himself and covers her. Apparently, Ruth had exposed herself as well. He could not remember what had happened. He only knew that upon awakening, a naked woman is beside him. It appeared something had happened. Boaz insisted that no one was to tell it around that the woman came to him that night. He thought the only proper thing to do was to marry Ruth, so he did. It at least appears that Ruth blackmailed Boaz. She falsified herself and trapped him. We cannot excuse it. We cannot aprove it. This would not be a part of the story that we should imitate. Yet, the story is a rminder at this point that the work of God moves ahead, despite the most appalling clay feet of those who serve the Lord.
[2] (Homiletics, April-June 1991, 37-38).
[3] (Encyclopedia of 7700 Illustrations, #3104). 
[4] Philip Hailie, Lest Innocent Blood be Shed.  (Leadership, Fall 1989, 50). See also the account at http://www.ushmm.org/wlc/en/article.php?ModuleId=10007518

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